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Divorce or Stay Together?

By Linda . Created on 10 May, 2019
Let's say you have 3 kids, 2 in Secondary School, 1 at College, you have been married for 20 years, you don't argue or fight in front of children, in fact you don't fight or argue at all, you have become strangers that live under the same roof. The kids sense something isn't quite right but don't appear too concerned as they are provided for and don't see any arguing. Your friends and family are supportive, half of them say leave, half say go.......What would you do????
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Seek couples councilling 1st

Seek couples councilling 1st

on Jun 13, 2019
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KoKo Black said on Jun 12, 2019
Get a Councillor session.. talk about it as there might be something missing need to address..
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braunhi said on Jun 12, 2019
Thanks Coco for your message. I agree get sound advice first. It may be able to save a marriage through communication. Take care. B.
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Sooty said on Jun 3, 2019
People have lost the meaning of marriage these days and now just consider it the icing on the cake. Why take vows when can't even keep them? This is part of the reason why society is falling apart.
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braunhi said on Jun 12, 2019
Your are right Sooty. It is so easy to get out of marriages now. Communication is the name of the game.
Robyn said on May 29, 2019
Talk it through with my Husband first
Joy said on May 27, 2019
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Jay said on May 26, 2019
I'm much happier knowing my parents are happy know matter what happens, if you are going to stay together for the kids wellbeing its when the grandchildren come along that we wish one of you didn't work but we seem to manage
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Euron said on May 19, 2019
Happy strangers or sad strangers ? That may be the determining factor. You only live once so never die with regrets of what might have been.
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braunhi said on May 19, 2019
Thanks for your message Euron. Very eloquently put indeed. Take care B.
Jules said on May 18, 2019
If there is any abuse of any kind including emotional abuse which is becoming more of the silent kind then you have to take the plunge and leave.
If you can & need to, put things in place before you just get up and leave on a whim. If you can't there are plenty of organizations that can help you in an emergency. ...
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Paula said on May 16, 2019
I would suggest a conversation be had to decide if your both on the same page & come to an agreement about what you want to happen once the 2 kids have finished high school. Regardless if it's stay or go it's important to remain a united front for the kids so their lives aren't disrupted at an already stressful time in their lives. If there was fighting, I would suggest the opposite. Depending on ...
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braunhi said on May 16, 2019
Thanks for your message Paula. A very comprehensive reply indeed and one in which I believe to be of sound advice. It would be interesting to hear what comes out of it and if it is positive sometime down the track. Take care. B.