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Honest or secret?

By ❤️ Bella ❤️ . Created on 16 May, 2019
In a relationship if you have been unfaithful, told a lie or done something behind your partners back would you be do the right thing and honest with them either if the found out or if they didn’t or would you lie and hide it from them?
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Sooty said on Jun 3, 2019
Be honest and face the consequences because if start lying then you need to build more lies to cover the original lie. Then you end up either a mental wreck and sabotaging the relationship subconsciously or you get caught and can never be trusted again. If you face the problem you can avoid the long term mental trauma and may even have the chance to correct your mistakes.
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Robyn said on May 29, 2019
Honesty is most important
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Hans Proebsting said on May 28, 2019
Statistically, based on university studies, 50% of people will lie to either avoid repercussions or to gain an advantage.

Good to see 75% of responders here opting for the truth. Much more important in a relationship than in general conversation.
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Joy said on May 27, 2019
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Julz said on May 19, 2019
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braunhi said on May 19, 2019
Thank you for your message Julz. I agree totally with your answer honesty is the best policy. Take care and have a great week. B.
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Matthew said on May 19, 2019
I would be honest with my wife. The truth comes out anyway.
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braunhi said on May 19, 2019
Thanks Matthew for your message. The truth does always come out in the end and it is far better to be open about it in the first place and not have to worry about it. Take care and I hope that you are enjoying your Sunday. B.
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Nicole Banyard said on May 16, 2019
In the past I've found it difficult to be honest due to repercussions but I definitely don't think it's the right thing to do. I'm learning to be more confident and have more guts to be upfront and honest, if you've done something wrong then things will never feel right until it's been dealt with, I know this from experience
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braunhi said on May 17, 2019
Good on you Nicole. You go girl. B.
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braunhi said on May 16, 2019
This is a hard one to answer but I do believe that in a relationship you should have no secrets from each other. I have been privy to many a person's secrets that they did not share with their partners and eventually it does come back to bite you on your nether regions.
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Maree said on May 17, 2019
Hi B, I agree with you. A great relationship is built out of trust, love, truth, honesty and not keeping secrets from one another. Because if you don't have that with your partner well why be with them. Keeping secrets is just for kids. Maree.....