Thanks for your response JK and I agree with you on this in your situation. Horrible! Much better, imo, to stay single. Once trust has gone, I feel, you never get it back. Please take care of yourself. Have a great week! B.
I think you mean "their" partners.
<br/>I suspect that unrealistic expectations may have a lot to do with relationship breakdowns. Too many people expect everything to be on Cloud 9 forever but life and reality change. People change, mature, grow up or whatever. Such development is usually a good thing . My former partner believed that having difference of opinion was a bad thing even t...See more »
Jurate thanks for your very eloquent reply. Yes I do agree with what you say. I too had a partner like this many moons ago. 'Nice man etc etc' but we had different values after a while. Have been happily married to my hubby now for 40 years and they could not be any different sort of men. Indeed, I too agree, it is about what we learn and observe at home that impacts us. I have never, thank goodness, ever see...See more »
I be hurt ,used lied abused mentalky abuse so the one I let close to me ...I allways been up front never lie cos there no need for it if your up front and open it just easier to honest ...but that rare event to find a needle in a haystack
I have been cheated on and stayed with that partner. Sex isn't everything. I did leave a partner when I found out he cheated on me, because for the 7 years we were together he was getting it anywhere and everywhere he could and accusing me of having affairs. It was the lies and dishonesty that finally got to me.
I think monogamy is not a true value of your love. Sex takes 5 minutes (give or take) whereas love is forever even when they’ve gone. I have never forgotten any relationship I have had whether sexual or otherwise and I am grateful. I think people should love one another as we are all different and thus have something to learn from sharing.
Lack of respect tought to people during childhood.
<br/>Basic human decency and ethical values not learned from pairents during childhood.
<br/>Not demonstrated respect by elders, pears, nor persons of power in the comunity/ country they were raised in. But not limited to just these misgivings and often no consequences for these unethical behaviours ...See more »
Thanks Nadia for your response. Very eloquently put and I agree wholeheartedly with you. It does stem from the home indeed. Take care and have a great day.. B.